Sunday, June 1, 2014

From me to you..

1- Coffee morning - maaf, biasanya saya dah siap-siap makan di rumah with Cik Asben.

2- Window shopping - maaf, saya biasanya hanya keluar bila rasa perlu or ada barang-barang yang perlu dibeli.

3- Yoga.. gym.. etc - maaf, kerja-kerja di rumah dah cukup untuk membuat saya bergerak ke sana dan ke sini. And I don't like "bibik" sebab saya sangat cerewet.

4- Deco class etc.. maaf, saya dah pernah enroll (most that you've offered me) semasa di Malaysia.

5- SPA treatment.. maaf, I'm not that type of person.. bukan tak suka dibelai dan dimanjakan but I have my other priorities. Thus I don't like wasting my money at those kind of place.

In short.. 
How do you "relief your stress"?
Hobbies?
Friends?
Waktu senggang tak ada ke?


Typical questions.. then typical answers it shall be..

Stress.. 
Ada masa memang Ibu stress dengan life. But to overcome.. I deal with it.. and NOT run from it. Delaying things.. so not my way. Mungkin pada sesetengah orang I might be a bit POYO.. but that's ME.

Hobbies..
I have my books.. fridge magnets.. deco plate.. snow globe a few more others..

Just like any ordinary people.. Ibu pun ada hobi. And still ongoing. To me.. hobi.. kita kena ikhlas and bukan sebab terikut-ikut dengan orang lain. Result.. Ibu still do "things" yang Ibu buat sejak jejak tanah Kuwait ni.

Friends..
Of course la ada. But to me.. they are more quality friends. Thus.. jumpa OK. Tak jumpa pun OK jer. Bukan jenis nak mengadap muka dia orang selalu pun. And kami pun tak communicate kerap sangat. Lesson learn. You only have YOURSELF.

Waktu senggang..
Sure la ada. Otherwise macam mana nak up entri tiap hari (or almost tiap hari). Cuma mungkin semua tugas Ibu dah ada "its own time". So, nak slot in benda lain.. kena plan in advance la. Entah.. dah terbiasa macam tu.. nak buat macam mana kan..

And maybe sebab masa awal-awal Cik Asben merantau dulu.. Ibu rasa macam dah lama sangat "ditinggalkan" dengan tanggungjawab penuh ke atas anak-anak.. so.. bila kami dah "bersama" seperti sekarang ini.. Ibu prefer menghabiskan masa senggang bersama keluarga sahaja.

Tapi.. sesekali tu.. Ibu keluar jugak dengan kawan perempuan. Tho' its unlikely selalu.. very rare or only once in a blue moon.

Pelik ke Ibu ni??
Come la ladies.. there's nothing WEIRD or ABNORMAL about me. Cuma maybe cara kita saja yang a bit different.

Pada yang "mampu" tunggu pintu mall bukak tiap pagi.. or tunggu Chef pi masak kopi kat dapur hotel.. carry-on. I hope you enjoy with your much blessed life.

Cara kita tak mungkin sama or maybe tak akan sama pun. Thus, that did not make me a WEIRDO. It just that.. you have your way and I have my priorities. Full stop.


And with that.. I rest my case..
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12 comments:

  1. Nasa MuliaJune 1, 2014 at 1:26 PM

    bila kena ajak dengan baik kita tolak, dikata tak bersosial lah, kolotlah tak suka bergaul...takpelah, forget it, i have my way and i enjoy that way i live...kan ibu kan.

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  2. UnknownJune 1, 2014 at 2:01 PM

    To some.. I don't play well with others. Terpulanglah.. itu cara masing2.
    Cuma bila dah tua2 ni.. rasa tak berbaloi melepak di shoping mall, ziarah dari 1 kedai ke kedai yang lain.
    Life is too short utk dibazirkan dgn cara yg sebegitu.

    Thus kalau kolot.. kolot la..
    Kalau anti-sosial.. ye la kut..

    Masing2 ada "priorities" kan..

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  3. Acik ErnaJune 1, 2014 at 2:21 PM

    Betul la sham..acik pun rasa dah tua2 ni dah tak kRat dsn tak perlu nank tunggu depan pi tu mall kan
    tempat yang terlalu ramai pun memang dari muda acik tak berapa suka nak pergi

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  4. UnknownJune 1, 2014 at 2:37 PM

    Samo la kito Acik.
    Dah peil mcm ni sojak dr dulu.. nak buek camano lak kan.

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  5. tifaanvarJune 1, 2014 at 4:39 PM

    we r think alike k. Sham. I like it the way spend more time on my family. Only some people will have thinking like this. We r so special when it come family n kids

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  6. UnknownJune 1, 2014 at 6:06 PM

    Tifa,
    K.Sham rasa benda ni normal. Especially bila dlm satu kelompok kecil tp ada sorang dua yang "lain" sikit.
    Labeling people as such.. pun lumrah.
    Cuma tak perlu la kata org tu kera sumbang ke.. anti sosial ke.. kita tak tahu cerita sebenar org tu.

    In short.. jaga diri sendiri sajalah..

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  7. Sal Bee YahJune 1, 2014 at 6:10 PM

    mungkin akak ni jenis yang 'homebody' kot..saya pun kadang-kadang lagi suka dok rumah spend time dengan family.kalau keluar pun dengan 'quality friends'.biar sikit tapi enjoy bila jumpa diorang.

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  8. UnknownJune 1, 2014 at 6:29 PM

    Dik Sal Bee Yah,
    K.Sham memang rasa lebih selesa keluarga dgn keluarga or otherwise dok rumah saja.
    Entah.. dah biasa mcm tu.

    Tp sesekali keluar jugak dgn kwn2.
    Normal la tu kan.

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  9. Real Life in MalaysiaJune 2, 2014 at 6:56 AM

    Assalamualaikum wbt Sham :)

    the special and extra-ordinary leads, and gets lonely most of the time ... the common and ordinary, follows, and have fun poking the back of the leader ...

    Boleh saje pilih :)

    BarakAllahu fik.

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  10. UnknownJune 2, 2014 at 10:34 AM

    Alaikumsalam wbt REAL,
    Deep..
    But I like it very much..

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  11. Mila@RimbunJune 2, 2014 at 12:08 PM

    saya pun lebih kurang sama ler.. lebih suka buat sesuatu yang saya suka buat, bukan ikut orang dan bukan fikir sangat apa orang nak kata.
    At the same time kita pun tak suka judge org.. they have their own way.. up to them, betul tak?

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  12. Mila@RimbunJune 2, 2014 at 12:09 PM

    saya pun lebih kurang sama ler.. lebih suka buat sesuatu yang saya suka buat, bukan ikut orang dan bukan fikir sangat apa orang nak kata.
    At the same time kita pun tak suka judge org.. they have their own way.. up to them, betul tak?

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